The Road not Taken
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
(I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:)
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
The customary thought is that you can plan for the expected, but if you survive the unexpected, you’ve done well.
Horse handling can parallel the private life. There are just as many
expected as unexpected happenings in good horse handling, as in private
life. The question is which road will you take?
Will you take the road of adversity? Can you plan for both the
expected and unexpected in horse handling? When the situation or
“horse” cries, “change or else” what road will you take?
The McLoughlin system of horse handling is a process that will help
provide the foundation for both the expected and the unexpected.
Crisis management is not management. It leaves many victims in its
path, and a bitter taste in the mouth of those who administer it.
There is a constructive and productive way, not necessarily
effortless, but satisfying; that goes against the method of brutalizing horses
and the quick training techniques that confuse and frustrate horses and
students.
Unfortunately, most trainers get horses to do
things! The more talented the horse, the easier it is to get him to do
what you want. That confuses the issue. Trainers think they do well
when this happens. The problem is two fold:
If you get the horse to do it, you are only working
on the physical side of training. When you take the
time (time is a key word) to teach and show your horse
what you want, you are working on the mental side of training. In order for a
trainer to work successfully on the horse’s brain, he must first have his mental
attitude under complete control. Meaning: no ego. Not getting mad being
completely mellow around your horses. Not just when you are riding and training
them. When you are grooming, leading from one stall to the other, feeding,
loading on a trailer, and driving down the road. No matter how good a horse
handler you are, until you put this factor together, you will not get a true
union between you and your horse.
The art of Classical Stock Seat riding unfortunately is not the norm. Just like what the Classical Dressage world is trying to do, we must work hard to pursue good riding form and style, with efficient and balanced moves of the horse.
The horse has done remarkable things for man. Some were unbelievable and have never asked for much in return, just some good hay, feed and a clean stall. As a true horseman, we owe it to the horse to show him in his grandest style!
The #1 secret of successful horse handling, Attitude! We are going to take a look at the Road less traveled....




